Islam and Simon Cowell: ‘Idol’ judge is causing a stir with his Afghan fiancée

Simon Cowell and Mezghan Hussainy at the Elton John AIDS Foundation Oscars Party in West Hollywood, California on March 7 (Larry Busacca/Getty)

One of the last times I give a talk for my book (“Al’ America: Travels Through America’s Arab and Islamic Roots”), a woman in hijab asked me when Americans would begin “trusting” Islam. By that, she meant, “When will Islam be considered just another religion – like Judaism and Christianity – and not a faith to be treated with fear and suspicion.” Speaking into a microphone, I made an analogy to AIDS and to soccer. In 1985, Rock Hudson’s HIV-status put (for the first time) a famous public face on the disease, helping Americans come to terms with an illness that was marginalized by mainstream culture. In 1998, French soccer player Zinedine Zidane led his national team to World Cup triumph, putting a positive public face on France’s large Arab and Muslim population. Zidane and Hudson weren’t panaceas – they were celebrities who brought humanity to people’s thinking.

Flash ahead to February 14th of this year, when “American Idol” judge Simon Cowell became engaged to an Afghan-American woman who hails from a Muslim family. Cowell’s fiancée, a make-up artist named Mezhgan Hussainy, met the “Idol” curmudgeon on the set of the famous music program. There is rampant speculation (see here, here and here) on whether Hussainy is a practicing Muslim – and whether Cowell will convert to Islam before their announced wedding date in July. The fever has reached such a peak that it spread a few hours ago to my in-box. There, I got an urgent email from elan magazine that was headed, “Simon Cowell Converting?” The email teaser refers to the magzine’s blog post, which has a photo of Cowell grinning with these words superimposed: “WTFatwa!”

Nice. elan magazine is devoted to covering “global Muslim youth culture,” and its emphasis on humor and pop matters is a refreshing antidote to the seriousness often attached to its subjects. Simon Cowell is a polarizing figure, but his reach is undeniable. Millions of Americans (and Brits, and other nationalities) admire Cowell for his (choose one or mix and match) entrepreneurship, put-down-manship, fame, wealth, power, smarts, and doggedness. “American Idol” is a genuine phenomenon, and for Cowell’s procession of fans (and enemies), his conversion to Islam would be akin to Cassius Clay’s change in faith and name. Some of Cowell’s followers aren’t taking too kindly to his engagement to a woman from Afghanistan.

“Yes, she is very pretty,” said one person about Mezhgan Hussainy, “but I’d be worried she could be a ‘cell’ for Afghanistan, and have a bomb under her coat someday to kill as many of us as she could. Stranger things have happened. Think about it!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!”

I’ve thought about it, and the comment is saturated in paranoia. Like I told the hijab-wearing woman in my book talk, no one thing or person will change the perception of Islam – it will be a series of events, some of them unforeseen, that humanize the religion. Picture this: Cowell’s wedding takes place this summer, and TV cameras record a procession of Afghan men (Hussainy’s uncles, cousins, et al.) in traditional dress who shout out their religious blessings in Dari. That in itself would be worth noting. Never mind if Cowell converts to Islam, which is expecting too much from someone like him: An arrogant man who shows his disdain for anything that’s bigger than Simon Cowell.

This entry was posted in Entertainment and tagged , , , , , , , , , . Bookmark the permalink.

11 Responses to Islam and Simon Cowell: ‘Idol’ judge is causing a stir with his Afghan fiancée

  1. Pingback: Friday Links — April 16, 2010 » Muslimah Media Watch

  2. andylevinson says:

    Jesus, how do you trust a people who are sworn to murder everyone…including muslim women who show some skin?

    • rbrander says:

      Since you addressed the question to Jesus, we’ll let him explain that to you.

      Hint, he’ll probably say it has something to do with judging people by the content of their character, not the worst things said by the worst people who share their faith.

  3. rbrander says:

    If the sacrifice of Kareem Rashad Sultan Khan, as publicized by the New Yorker, then Colin Powell, then Maureen Dowd, couldn’t do it, I’m not sure what could.


    Time. It’s just going to take time.

  4. Wow, better said that Muslim girls will look at Mezghan and say “Look what can be!” Proof, that The Change is happening.

  5. I would think of Cowell converted that would just get more people to hate Islam. And it’s not like Hussainy is “typical” i.e. she’s not in a burqua or hijab. Most Americans would think an Indian, esp a Sikh in a “turban” are more “obviously” Muslim. Look at Cat Stevens conversion — he went from a fairly likeable guy, to sort of a jerk with the Salman Rushdie stuff, and now he gets thrown off planes for being a “terrorist.”

    • It’s true that Stevens metamorphosed into someone with rigid views, but he’s evolved more in the past few years — he’s again playing his old songs, marrying his present life with his past. And it’s definitely true that if Cowell converts, more people might hate Islam — but more people would take an interest in it (in a not-so-negative way).

  6. kurtfawnigat says:

    Hands down the best headline I’ve ever seen. The HP editor’s, not yours. “Will Simon Cowell’s marriage help Muslims in America?” It’s mind-bending…kind of like an Escher painting.

    I certainly understand the point I think you’re making- the idea that middle Americans might be less hysterical about non-whites because a Limey game show personality married an Afghan.

    I just can’t help thinking that if Simon’s nuptual (read $5 million(us) beard implant ceremony) is a candidate for rehabilitating the intelligence of legions of idol fans, with particular respect to geopolitics and race relations, the battle might very well be already lost.

  7. kurtfawnigat says:

    Now they’re coming in waves…

    FROM AP: Mel Gibson’s ex-girlfriend to help Chernobyl kids…

    i feel i’ve eaten an entire bottle of Mugatu’s crazy pills. god bless america and not Gambia.

  8. Reuben Moore says:

    Well I apologize in advance if this sounds sexist, but look what beauty can be found behind the veil. Overall, I think this marriage could be good for Muslim-Americans. Ms. Hussainy demonstrates that Muslims can indeed become part of our melting pot.

    However, whatever good this union may produce will be undone if Mr. Cowell feels he must convert to Islam. Conversion to please his fiance, or more likely her family, will demonstrate just how far Muslims have to go to integrate themselves into our society.

    And yes, I realize that Islam is certainly not the only supremacist idealogy which coerces members to only marry from within. But that does not make it any more palatable.

Leave a Reply

Fill in your details below or click an icon to log in: Logo

You are commenting using your account. Log Out /  Change )

Google+ photo

You are commenting using your Google+ account. Log Out /  Change )

Twitter picture

You are commenting using your Twitter account. Log Out /  Change )

Facebook photo

You are commenting using your Facebook account. Log Out /  Change )

Connecting to %s